By Steve Davis, CFP®
One of my sons is a high school senior and last Friday my wife and I took him on a college tour. Years ago, during those cold and rainy spring days at the Otis Street Little League fields, I thought this day would never come. My folks used to warn, “They grow up so fast”, but I imagined myself stuck at the ball fields forever. With four boys playing back-to-back games, some of those days never seemed to end. But time marches on.
One of my sons is a high school senior and last Friday my wife and I took him on a college tour. Years ago, during those cold and rainy spring days at the Otis Street Little League fields, I thought this day would never come. My folks used to warn, “They grow up so fast”, but I imagined myself stuck at the ball fields forever. With four boys playing back-to-back games, some of those days never seemed to end. But time marches on.
When we arrived at the Massachusetts College of Art in downtown Boston, the first thing our tour director did was lead us to the top floor of the library where we enjoyed spectacular views of the city. She pointed out the other nearby schools, the world-famous museums, and even the Citgo sign above Fenway Park. From there, our group proceeded to visit the different studios, lecture halls, and dorms on campus. Our guide that day was a painting major and perhaps it was this background that allowed her to use her words to so perfectly paint for us the college experience. In our minds, we could see perfectly what school would be like at Mass Art. In a way, the students in our group were transported to the future where they could see what the next four years of their lives would be like.
There is a lesson in all of this. When it comes to achieving financial goals like funding a child’s college education or retiring at age 65, picturing the life of your dreams can be a wonderful motivator. Whatever your aspirations for the future, the only way to achieve the vision of how you’ll spend the years ahead is to commit to a plan that can take you there.
Dreaming and Discovery
How you envision the rest of your life might involve traveling the world or pursuing a career you postponed to raise a family. Maybe you picture spending more time with your family or volunteering at local charities. The point is, everyone’s dreams for the future are unique and there is no one-size fits all financial plan. Taking the time to imagine and articulate your hopes and fears is probably the most important first step. Often times a professional financial advisor can help facilitate this conversation, but some folks are able to do this well on their own. The key is to discover and visualize your ultimate financial goals. Here’s why: If you want something badly enough you’ll make small sacrifices now in order to acquire what you really want later.
I have a client who graduated from college with many thousands of dollars in student loans. This debt created a huge burden that resulted in a lot of financial difficulties during the early years of her marriage. For this client, funding her children’s education was hugely important. She didn’t want her kids to struggle the way she had. This tangible desire to create a college fund made it easier for her to pass up expensive vacations and the like because these would have prevented her from reaching her goal.
Roadmaps and Directions
Of course, a vision without action is just a dream. Once you know your financial destination, the next step is to create a roadmap that will take you there.
Bruce Springsteen once sang, “Take a right at the light, keep going straight until night, and then boy, you’re on your own.” While this makes for great rock lyrics, it is lousy financial advice. Instead, it is best to have precise turn-by-turn directions that will help you navigate the twists and turns of life. Create specific and measurable goals and understand which ones can be accomplished in less than a year, which ones will take three to five years to achieve, and which ones are truly long-term in nature. As you accomplish the short term goals, you’ll build momentum to carry on toward achieving longer term objectives.
Just as there are many routes that will take you to the same destination, there are many financial tools, investments and tax strategies that will help you work toward your life’s dreams. If you don’t have the time, interest or inclination to research this on your own, a financial advisor can provide meaningful guidance at this stage.
Over the course of your lifetime, your goals and circumstances may change. There may be detours along the way. Flexibility and planning for contingencies is critical here because just when you make plans, life gets in the way. Events small or large can change everything. Getting laid off or changing jobs can result in the loss of anticipated retirement benefits. Losing your health could force an early retirement. Caring for aging parents may have never been on your radar. The best financial plans are the ones that can adapt for the unexpected, anticipate change and adjust over time.
Enjoy the Journey
My children are growing up and before I know it, they’ll all be off to college. Yes, time marches on. It seemed like just yesterday when I was in college. I once had a professor who said, “It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters, in the end.”
As a dad, I wouldn’t change anything; not even those long days at the Otis Street fields when my back was sore, my hands were cold and my shoes were covered in dust and dirt. One of the greatest benefits to taking the time to envision and plan your future is that it gives you the ability to live in the present and focus your time and attention on those things that matter most.
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The opinions voiced in this material are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual.
This article was written by Steve Davis and appeared in the column "Talking with Davis about Money Matters" found at http://mansfield-ma.patch.com/articles/word-pictures-imaging-your-financial-aid-future
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The opinions voiced in this material are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual.
This article was written by Steve Davis and appeared in the column "Talking with Davis about Money Matters" found at http://mansfield-ma.patch.com/articles/word-pictures-imaging-your-financial-aid-future
